Swingers Sphere Fetish Glossary

ABDL (Adult Baby/Diaper Lover) – A fetish where adults role-play as babies or toddlers, often wearing diapers or engaging in regressive behavior. Erotic arousal may come from vulnerability, humiliation, or the nurturing dynamic of a caregiver. For many, it blends comfort, submission, and taboo fantasy.

 

Abduction Play – A roleplay scenario where one partner pretends to be forcibly kidnapped. The thrill comes from fear, helplessness, and adrenaline, transforming the fantasy of capture into an erotic high. Always practiced with clear negotiation and safewords.

 

Abrasion Play – A kink involving stimulation of the skin through rough textures like sandpaper, brushes, or coarse fabrics. The arousal is in the burn of friction, heightening pain and sensitivity. Often used in BDSM to amplify endurance and vulnerability.

 

Accents – Erotic attraction to the way someone speaks in a particular accent. The arousal may come from exoticism, unfamiliar sound, or the power of voice as seduction. Words become foreplay when accents take center stage.

 

Affection – A fetish for tenderness, warmth, and loving gestures such as hugs, kisses, or soft caresses. When combined with kink or power play, affection transforms into deeply erotic intimacy.

 

Affectionate Cruelty – A dynamic where teasing, punishment, or humiliation is paired with love and reassurance. The emotional whiplash—pain mixed with tenderness—creates erotic intensity and trust.

 

Affectionate Domination – A style of dominance that blends control with nurturing. Commands, restraints, or rituals are carried out with warmth, creating a safe and erotic surrender for the submissive.

 

Aftercare – The intimate practice of tending to a partner after intense play. Cuddling, hydration, reassurance, or soft touch transform aftercare into an erotic ritual of closeness and trust.

 

Aftercare Cuddles – The fetish for being held and soothed after play. The comfort of touch, warmth, and safety often becomes the most sensual moment of a BDSM encounter.

 

Age Play – Roleplay where partners assume older or younger personas (Daddy/little girl, Mommy/son, etc.). The eroticism lies in taboo, innocence, and power dynamics. Always negotiated with care and boundaries.

 

Anal – Erotic focus on the anus, one of the body’s most nerve-rich zones. Anal play excites by blending taboo and intimacy, from light teasing to full penetration.

 

Anal Beads – A string of beads inserted into the anus, creating waves of sensation when pulled out. The gradual stretch and sudden release can amplify orgasm.

 

Anal Chastity – A fetish in which anal pleasure is restricted or denied, often with plugs, locks, or discipline. Desire builds as release is withheld, heightening submission.

 

Anal Creampie – Arousal from ejaculating inside a partner’s anus. The thrill is in taboo intimacy, risk, and the erotic visual of “breeding” play.

 

Anal Fingering – Using fingers to stimulate or penetrate the anus. It can be gentle foreplay, prostate play, or a fetish act of intimacy and submission.

 

Anal Fisting – The insertion of a full hand into the anus. The extreme stretch and intensity push physical and psychological boundaries, creating profound intimacy between partners.

 

Anal Hooks – Curved metal hooks inserted into the anus and often tied into rope bondage. The pull intensifies sensation and vulnerability, merging anal play with restraint.

 

Anal Play – Any stimulation of the anus, from gentle caresses to penetration. Erotic for its taboo and nerve sensitivity, it’s a core kink for many.

 

Anal Sex – Penetration of the anus with a penis, toy, or strap-on. The fetish thrives on its mix of intimacy, control, and forbidden pleasure.

 

Anal Stretching – The gradual widening of the anus using toys or hands. Many enjoy the sense of training the body to take more, enhancing endurance and submission.

 

Anal Training – A fetish where the anus is “trained” over time with toys or penetration to increase tolerance and pleasure. The journey itself becomes erotic, blending patience, vulnerability, and progression.

 

Analingus (Rimming) – Oral stimulation of the anus with the mouth or tongue. Both taboo and intimate, it excites through raw exposure, cleanliness rituals, and forbidden pleasure.

 

Androgyny – Sexual attraction to a mix of masculine and feminine traits. The blending of gender cues can feel exotic, taboo, and deeply alluring.

 

Anime – A fetish for animated erotic art, ranging from hentai to stylized character fantasies. The fantasy element allows limitless exploration of desire and taboo.

 

Anonymous Encounters – Erotic thrill from sexual activity without exchanging names or identities. The arousal comes from mystery, risk, and pure physicality without attachment.

 

Armbinders – Bondage gear that secures both arms behind the back in a sheath. They enforce helplessness, vulnerability, and aesthetic submission.

 

Armpits – Attraction to the look, scent, or taste of armpits. Armpit fetishists often enjoy licking, sniffing, or worshipping this intimate body zone.

 

Art Erotica – Arousal through erotic photography, paintings, or sculpture. The fetish celebrates sexuality as beauty, merging arousal with aesthetic appreciation.

 

Artistic Cutting – The consensual practice of shallow skin cutting for erotic or artistic effect. Scars may be shaped into patterns, combining pain, beauty, and ritual. Always practiced with medical-grade safety.

 

Asphyxiaphilia (Breath Play) – A fetish for restricted breathing, such as choking or smothering. The adrenaline and oxygen deprivation heighten arousal. Strict safety is critical, as risks are extreme.

 

Ass Licking – Erotic oral worship of the buttocks and anus. The act blends humiliation, intimacy, and taboo oral pleasure.

 

Ass Play – A general term for erotic stimulation of the buttocks and anus. Erotic because of vulnerability, taboo, and nerve sensitivity.

 

Ass to Mouth (ATM) – A fetish for immediate oral contact with a penis or toy after it has been inside the anus. It heightens taboo, degradation, and rawness.

 

Ass Worship – A fetish for adoring the buttocks through licking, kissing, touching, or massaging. Seen as playful devotion to curves, softness, and power of the body.

 

Attention – A fetish for being the erotic center of focus. Whether adored, ogled, or teased, attention seekers thrive on being desired and watched.

 

Auralism – Sexual arousal from sounds such as moans, dirty talk, or even music. Erotic listening amplifies desire, proving arousal can begin in the ears.

 

Bald Girls – Attraction to shaved or bald female heads. The fetish thrives on contrast, power, and uniqueness, blending beauty with erotic defiance.

 

Ball Gags – Classic BDSM restraints placed in the mouth, forcing silence and drooling. They intensify submission and helplessness while amplifying erotic control.

 

Ball Kicking – A fetish for striking the testicles with feet, knees, or objects. The sharp pain turns into erotic endurance and submission for masochists.

 

Ball Stretching – The practice of elongating the scrotum with weights or devices. The erotic appeal is in tightness, exposure, and enhanced sensitivity.

 

Ballbusting – Sexual arousal from pain inflicted on the testicles. The fetish thrives on power, humiliation, and endurance of extreme pain for pleasure.

 

Ballet Boots/Shoes – Fetish footwear shaped like ballet pointe shoes but with extreme heels. Wearing them forces posture, helplessness, and erotic discomfort.

 

Bare Bottom Spanking – Erotic spanking on unclothed buttocks. The sting, sound, and exposure heighten submission and arousal.

 

Bare Handed Spanking – Spanking with an open hand, often erotic for its skin-to-skin intimacy. Each smack becomes both punishment and caress.

 

Bareback – Engaging in penetrative sex without a condom. The thrill lies in rawness, risk, and deeper intimacy. Often associated with taboo play and “breeding” fantasies.

 

Barefoot – Attraction to bare feet, often in natural, exposed states. Many enjoy the vulnerability, scent, and touch of naked soles and toes.

 

Bastinado – A form of corporal punishment focused on beating the soles of the feet with sticks, canes, or whips. The sensitivity of feet makes each strike excruciating and erotically intense.

 

Bathroom Use Control – A fetish where one partner controls when and how the other may relieve themselves. The humiliation and desperation intensify erotic submission.

 

BBC (Big Black Cock) – A popular fetish focused on the erotic allure of well-endowed Black men. Themes of size, taboo interracial sex, and domination often amplify arousal.

 

BBW (Big Beautiful Women) – A fetish centered on the erotic appreciation of plus-size women. Curves, softness, and abundance are celebrated as sensual and powerful. Many find arousal in the contrast to mainstream body ideals, embracing fullness as deeply erotic.

 

BBW/BHM (Big Beautiful Women/Big Handsome Men) – Attraction to larger-bodied partners regardless of gender. The fetish emphasizes confidence, warmth, and the eroticism of size. It celebrates inclusivity and challenges narrow beauty standards.

 

BDSM – An umbrella term encompassing Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism. BDSM blends restraint, power exchange, and sensation play into a consensual erotic lifestyle. Its diversity allows partners to create rituals of control, trust, and taboo pleasure.

 

Beards – Arousal from facial hair on men. The fetish thrives on texture, masculinity, and the visual of dominance. Many enjoy the scratch of stubble or the softness of a full beard during intimacy.

 

Begging – A fetish where a submissive is made to plead for sex, orgasms, or attention. The erotic charge is in humiliation, desperation, and the pleasure of being denied until submission breaks into raw desire.

 

Behavior Modification – The use of rewards and punishments to train a submissive’s behavior. Erotic because it blends discipline with control, turning submission into learned ritual.

 

Being Called a Good Girl – A powerful praise kink where hearing “good girl” becomes a direct trigger of arousal. For many submissives, the phrase combines validation, approval, and erotic ownership.

 

Being Cummed On – A fetish where partners take pleasure in being ejaculated upon. The act is erotic because it blends marking, exposure, and raw visual sexuality.

 

Being Overpowered – A fantasy of losing control to a stronger partner. The arousal comes from helplessness, resistance play, and surrender to dominance. Always negotiated consensually in kink communities.

 

Bellydancing – A fetish where the sensual, rhythmic movements of bellydance become erotic triggers. Many find the exotic performance, exposed midriff, and controlled movements arousing.

 

Belt Spanking – Impact play using a belt to strike the body, often across the buttocks or thighs. The sting of leather carries associations of punishment and raw dominance.

 

Belt Whippings – A harsher form of belt impact play, where strokes are delivered with deliberate force. The fetish thrives on marks, welts, and endurance.

 

Ben Wa Balls – Small weighted balls inserted into the vagina to stimulate and strengthen pelvic muscles. They arouse by creating fullness and subtle internal vibrations as the wearer moves.

 

Big Tits – Attraction to large breasts, often celebrated for their visual and tactile appeal. Erotic play can involve worship, fondling, or dominance through size.

 

Bimboification – A fetish involving the transformation of a submissive into a hypersexualized “bimbo” persona. It often includes exaggerated femininity, slut training, and erotic objectification.

 

Bisexuality – A fetishized attraction to partners of both sexes, often eroticized in group play or cuckold scenarios. The erotic thrill is in fluid desire and breaking binary norms.

 

Biting – Arousal from using teeth on the skin, from playful nibbles to painful bites. It blends intimacy, animalistic passion, and dominance.

 

Blindfolds – Sensory deprivation play where sight is removed. The eroticism comes from heightened anticipation, vulnerability, and surprise.

 

Blood Play – A fetish where blood is drawn or used erotically. For many, it symbolizes trust, danger, and primal passion. Extreme caution and safety are mandatory.

 

Blow Jobs (Oral Sex on Men) – A common fetish for giving or receiving fellatio. The act excites through intimacy, power dynamics, and oral worship.

 

Blushing – Sexual arousal from the act of flushing or seeing a partner blush. It signals innocence, embarrassment, or heightened arousal, turning vulnerability into desire.

 

Body Hair – A fetish for natural body hair, whether chest, legs, or pubic hair. The rawness and primal aesthetic are celebrated as erotic.

 

Body Modification – Attraction to tattoos, piercings, implants, or scarification. The fetish celebrates transformation, rebellion, and the erotic artistry of the body.

 

Body Paint – Using paint to decorate the body for erotic play. Erotic because it blends art, nudity, and sensual touch.

 

Body Worship – A fetish where one partner adores another’s body with kisses, licks, and touch. The act transforms admiration into devotional erotic ritual.

 

Bondage – The erotic practice of restraining a partner with rope, cuffs, or other devices. The arousal comes from helplessness, control, and submission.

 

Bondage Art – Erotic imagery of restraint captured in photographs, drawings, or paintings. The fetish thrives on the visual allure of tied and exposed bodies.

 

Bondage Equipment – Tools and furniture designed for restraint, such as stocks, St. Andrew’s crosses, or cages. Their presence transforms space into erotic theater.

 

Bondage Tape – Special tape that sticks only to itself, used to bind partners without hurting skin. It blends restraint with artistic creativity.

 

Boots – A fetish for wearing or worshipping boots. Leather boots symbolize authority, power, and erotic dominance.

 

Boot Blacking – The erotic ritual of polishing or caring for boots, often with sensual submission. This fetish merges service with devotion.

 

Boot Licking – A submissive act of adoring boots with the tongue. It blends humiliation, obedience, and fetish worship.

 

Boot Worship – A broader fetish for admiring, kissing, or servicing boots. Erotic because boots symbolize dominance, authority, and raw sexuality.

 

Boss/Secretary Roleplay – A power-play fantasy based on workplace dynamics. The taboo of authority, professionalism, and sexual tension makes it highly erotic.

 

Braces – A fetish for orthodontic braces on teeth. Erotic appeal may stem from innocence, youth-like aesthetics, or the metallic look during intimacy.

 

Branding – The permanent marking of the skin with heat or cold for ownership or aesthetic effect. The fetish thrives on pain, permanence, and devotion.

 

Brats – Submissives who playfully resist dominance with sass, teasing, or disobedience. The fetish is in taming or “punishing” them into submission.

 

Breast Bondage – Tying or constricting breasts with rope or devices. The tightness enhances sensitivity and aesthetic beauty.

 

Breast Spanking – Impact play focused on striking the breasts. The fetish thrives on sting, swelling, and vulnerability.

 

Breast Whipping – Using whips to strike breasts, combining pain with visual eroticism.

 

Breast/Nipple Play – Erotic focus on the breasts and nipples through licking, sucking, or clamps. Nipples are highly sensitive, making stimulation intensely arousing.

 

Breastfeeding (Erotic Lactation) – A fetish for drinking breast milk or simulating breastfeeding. It eroticizes nurturing, intimacy, and taboo.

 

Breasts – Attraction to breasts in general, from small to large. Worship, fondling, and visual adoration make breasts central to sexuality.

 

Breath Play – Erotic restriction of breathing through choking, smothering, or gas masks. The thrill comes from adrenaline, submission, and edge play. Safety is vital.

 

Breeding – A fetish for ejaculation inside a partner with the fantasy of impregnation. The allure is in taboo, rawness, and primal intimacy.

 

Bruises – Attraction to marks left on the body after impact play. Bruises symbolize intensity, ownership, and erotic memory of the scene.

 

Bukkake – A fetish involving multiple partners ejaculating on a single person. The visual overwhelm, humiliation, and group focus heighten arousal.

 

Bullwhips – Long whips used in BDSM for cracking or striking. They symbolize authority and deliver intense stinging sensations.

 

Burlesque – Erotic performance art featuring striptease, dance, and glamour. The fetish thrives on tease, style, and sensual theater.

 

Business Suits – Attraction to formal clothing like suits and ties. The fetish thrives on authority, professionalism, and erotic contrasts between control and hidden desire.

 

Butches – Erotic attraction to masculine-presenting women. The fetish celebrates gender defiance, strength, and erotic power in femininity.

 

Butt Plugs – A sex toy designed for anal insertion, often used to create fullness or prepare for penetration. Many enjoy the lingering sensation of being “filled,” which can heighten arousal during daily activities or sex.

 

Butt Plugs in Public – A fetish for wearing plugs outside the bedroom, often under clothing. The thrill comes from the secrecy, risk of being “caught,” and the constant reminder of submission or arousal in everyday settings.

 

Caging/Confinement – A BDSM practice where a submissive is placed in a cage or confined space. The fetish blends restriction, helplessness, and objectification, intensifying power dynamics.

 

Candle Wax (Wax Play) – Erotic play involving hot wax dripped on the skin. The sharp sting followed by warmth creates a mix of pain and sensual pleasure, often turning the body into erotic art.

 

Caning – Impact play with a cane, known for sharp stings and lasting marks. The fetish appeals to masochists who enjoy precision pain and doms who relish the authority of corporal punishment.

 

Caressing – Arousal from gentle, loving touches across the body. In a fetish context, caressing becomes heightened foreplay, transforming soft intimacy into erotic devotion.

 

Casting – A fetish where body parts are encased in plaster or medical-style casts. It excites through immobility, vulnerability, and medical roleplay.

 

Catheters – A medical fetish involving insertion of catheters into the urethra. The act blends vulnerability, penetration, and clinical taboo, requiring careful hygiene.

 

Catsuits – Tight, full-body suits made of latex, PVC, or spandex. Erotic for their second-skin look, they enhance objectification, body worship, and fetish fashion.

 

CBT (Cock and Ball Torture) – A kink focused on inflicting pain or pressure on the genitals. The thrill is in masochistic endurance, dominance, and the raw vulnerability of male sexuality.

 

Cell Popping – A form of play where the skin is struck to create tiny heat blisters, often with elastic bands. The fetish thrives on the sting, marks, and taboo of damaging skin.

 

CFNM (Clothed Female, Naked Male) – A fetish where men are nude while women remain clothed. The imbalance highlights exposure, humiliation, and female authority.

 

Chains – Heavy metal restraints used in bondage. Chains excite through weight, coldness, and symbolism of captivity.

 

Chakra Energy Play – Erotic exploration of energy points in the body, blending spirituality with sexual arousal. Partners may use touch, breath, or ritual to awaken erotic energy flow.

 

Chaps – Leather leg coverings, often with the rear exposed. Chaps eroticize biker culture, raw masculinity, and fetish fashion.

 

Chastity – The denial of sexual release through discipline, rules, or devices. The fetish thrives on frustration, control, and the erotic power of denial.

 

Chastity Devices – Specially designed cages or belts that lock over genitals, preventing masturbation or penetration. They heighten arousal through enforced abstinence and surrender of control.

 

Cheerleading Uniforms – A fetish for wearing or seeing others in cheer outfits. The allure is in playful performance, innocence, and sexualized costume roleplay.

 

Chocolate – Erotic play involving chocolate, whether eating off the body, pouring, or smearing. The sweetness, mess, and indulgence make it a sensual food fetish.

 

Choking Play – Restricting a partner’s airflow with hands, arms, or objects. The adrenaline, fear, and control heighten intensity. Considered edge play, requiring extreme caution and trust.

 

Cigars – A fetish for smoking, watching, or using cigars erotically. The visual of smoke, smell, and power associations make them alluring in BDSM and fetish circles.

 

Clamps and Clips – Devices applied to nipples, genitals, or skin to create pressure and pain. The fetish thrives on sharp stimulation and marks left behind.

 

Claws – Long, sharp nails or artificial extensions used for scratching and sensation play. Erotic for their blend of pain, animalism, and dominance.

 

Cling Film (Plastic Wrap Bondage) – Using plastic wrap to encase the body, restricting movement. It heightens vulnerability, heat, and erotic helplessness.

 

Clit Pumping – Using suction devices to enlarge the clitoris, creating heightened sensitivity. The fetish mixes body modification, worship, and intense stimulation.

 

Clit Spanking – Direct impact play on the clitoris. Extremely sensitive, it blends pain with overwhelming erotic pleasure.

 

Clothespins – Everyday objects repurposed as clamps on nipples, genitals, or skin. The fetish is in pain play, improvisation, and humiliation.

 

Clover Clamps – Specialized clamps that tighten when pulled. The sharp pain intensifies with movement, amplifying submission.

 

Clowns – A fetish for erotic clown roleplay, costumes, or makeup. Erotic appeal lies in taboo, humor, fear, and exaggerated appearance.

 

Cock and Ball Torture (CBT) – (see entry 110) Inflicting controlled pain on male genitals. Erotic for its intensity and domination.

 

Cock Milking – A fetish where semen is extracted from the penis through massage, suction, or devices. Often linked to control, medical fetish, and forced release.

 

Cock Slapping – Impact play where the penis is slapped or struck. The fetish thrives on humiliation, sting, and rawness.

 

Cock Worship – A fetish where the penis is adored through kissing, licking, and praise. Erotic because it transforms genitals into objects of devotion and power.

 

Cocksucking (Fellatio) – Oral stimulation of the penis. The act excites through intimacy, power dynamics, and oral submission.

 

Collar and Lead/Leash – A submissive wears a collar attached to a leash, emphasizing ownership and control. Erotic for its symbolism of belonging and authority.

 

Collars – Symbolic accessories worn around the neck. Collars represent submission, ownership, and commitment within BDSM relationships.

 

Consensual Nonconsent (CNC) Play – Roleplay where one partner pretends to resist against agreed-upon acts. The thrill comes from the illusion of force while still being fully negotiated and consensual.

 

Control – A fetish where dominance is expressed through rules, restrictions, and ownership. The act of surrendering or wielding control becomes the core arousal.

 

Cornertime – A punishment fetish where a submissive is made to stand in the corner. Erotic for its humiliation, discipline, and anticipation.

 

Corporal Punishment – Impact-based punishment such as spanking, caning, or whipping. The fetish thrives on pain, humiliation, and submission.

 

Corset Cinching – Tightening corsets to extreme degrees to emphasize the waist. The fetish is in body transformation, restriction, and erotic aesthetics.

 

Corset Piercing – A body modification where rings or piercings are threaded like a corset. Erotic because of its beauty, pain, and ritualistic symbolism.

 

Corset Training – Wearing corsets regularly to reduce waist size over time. The fetish blends discipline, transformation, and fetish fashion.

 

Corsetry – The erotic appreciation of corsets in general, including wearing, watching, and lacing.

 

Corsets – Garments that shape the torso, fetishized for their restriction and aesthetic of dominance or submission.

 

Cosplay – Dressing up as characters from anime, comics, or games for erotic roleplay. The fetish thrives on fantasy immersion and costume eroticism.

 

Costumes/Dressing-Up – A general fetish for erotic clothing, uniforms, or costumes. The thrill is in transformation and roleplay.

 

Covert Bondage – Hidden or subtle restraints worn in public under clothing. The secrecy and risk make it thrilling.

 

Crawling – A fetish for making a submissive crawl on hands and knees. Erotic because it enforces humiliation, service, and animalistic submission.

 

Creampie – A fetish for ejaculating inside a partner, often vaginally. The thrill is intimacy, risk, and primal breeding fantasy.

 

Creampie Cleanup – A fetish where one partner consumes or licks up semen after a creampie. The act eroticizes intimacy, ownership, and taboo fluid play.

 

Crops – Short riding whips used in BDSM impact play. They deliver sharp stings with precision, blending pain, discipline, and erotic control.

 

Cross-Dressing – Wearing clothing traditionally associated with another gender. The fetish thrives on transformation, taboo, and gender expression, often paired with roleplay.

 

Crucifixion Play – A BDSM roleplay involving restraint or suspension in a crucifix-like position. The eroticism comes from exposure, suffering, and symbolic submission.

 

Crying – A fetish for tears and emotional release during play. Many find erotic power in vulnerability, catharsis, and dominance over raw emotion.

 

Cuckold – A man aroused by his partner having sex with others. The fetish often involves humiliation, submission, and the thrill of jealousy transformed into desire.

 

Cuckold Humiliation – A variation of cuckolding where the submissive is degraded, mocked, or belittled while their partner is with another. The intensity lies in erotic shame and surrender.

 

Cuckolding – The broader practice of one partner deriving arousal from their lover’s encounters with others. This fetish thrives on honesty, power exchange, and taboo excitement.

 

Cuddles – A fetish for affectionate holding. Cuddling becomes erotic when paired with intimacy, aftercare, or playful submission.

 

Cuddling – The act of holding one another closely. Erotic for its warmth, safety, and intimacy that can heighten sexual arousal.

 

Cuddling Naked – Cuddling without clothes, making skin-to-skin contact the erotic focus. The warmth, softness, and sensual proximity fuel desire.

 

Cuddling with Benefits – Cuddling that naturally evolves into sexual intimacy. The fetish celebrates closeness, teasing, and playful escalation.

 

Cum – A fetish surrounding semen itself—its look, taste, smell, or act of ejaculation. For many, cum play symbolizes raw sexuality and primal release.

 

Cunnilingus – Oral stimulation of the vulva and clitoris. Arousal comes from worship, dominance, or intimacy in giving and receiving.

 

Cunt Worship – Erotic devotion to the vulva, involving kissing, licking, praising, and adoration. Worship transforms genitals into sacred objects of desire.

 

Cupping – A fetish for suction play using cups on the skin. The pulling sensation, marks, and ritualistic look heighten erotic intensity.

 

Cutting – A form of extreme body play where shallow cuts are made for erotic pain or scarification. Often practiced as edge play requiring extreme caution.

 

Cyber Sex – Virtual sexual interaction through chat, video, or roleplay online. The fetish thrives on anonymity, imagination, and digital intimacy.

 

D/s (Dominance and Submission) – A cornerstone of BDSM involving consensual power exchange. Erotic intensity comes from authority, surrender, and ritualized control.

 

Dacryphilia – Arousal from tears or crying. Many find the vulnerability and raw emotion deeply erotic.

 

Daddy-Daughter Roleplay – A taboo form of age play where one partner roleplays as a “Daddy” and the other as a younger figure. Erotic appeal is in authority, nurturing, and forbidden roleplay. Always consensual and distinct from real familial relationships.

 

Daddy/babygirl (D/bg) – A dynamic within BDSM where the Daddy provides structure, care, and dominance, while the babygirl offers playfulness and submission. Erotic through nurture and power exchange.

 

Daddy/girl – A similar D/s roleplay dynamic with emphasis on authority and youthful innocence. Consent and boundaries are critical.

 

Damsels in Distress – A fetish where one partner roleplays as helpless, bound, or needing rescue. The eroticism lies in vulnerability, capture, and savior fantasies.

 

DDlg (Daddy Dom/little girl) – A structured BDSM dynamic blending dominance with nurturing age play. The erotic charge comes from rules, discipline, and affectionate control.

 

Decorative Cutting – Cutting the skin to create artistic or symbolic scars. Erotic for its beauty, ritual, and edge-play intensity.

 

Deep Throating – Oral penetration where the penis is taken fully into the throat. The fetish thrives on gag reflex, intensity, and submissive devotion.

 

Defilement – A fetish involving soiling, degrading, or dirtying a partner. Erotic for its humiliation and raw taboo appeal.

 

Degradation – A kink where one partner humiliates or lowers the other’s status. Erotic for its psychological intensity and surrender of pride.

 

Denim – A fetish for jeans, jackets, or denim clothing. The rough fabric, tight fit, and cultural associations create erotic excitement.

 

Depilation/Shaving – A fetish for hair removal, often involving shaving genitals or body parts. Erotic for its intimacy, vulnerability, and transformation.

 

Diaper – A fetish involving wearing or using diapers. Erotic appeal is often linked to ABDL, humiliation, or comfort play.

 

Diapers – Similar to diaper fetishism but often focused more on roleplay and regression. For many, the fetish blends taboo with nurturing dynamics.

 

Dildos – Phallic toys used for penetration or stimulation. The fetish thrives on variety, size play, and erotic imagination.

 

Dirty Text Messaging – Sexting or sending explicit messages as a fetish. Erotic for its anticipation, secrecy, and word-based seduction.

 

Discipline – A BDSM practice where rules are enforced through correction, punishment, or ritual. Erotic for its mix of control and structure.

 

Doctor/Nurse Play – Medical roleplay involving examinations, authority, and clinical scenarios. Erotic appeal lies in taboo, vulnerability, and power imbalance.

 

Doggy Style – A sexual position where penetration occurs from behind. Fetishized for its animalistic, primal, and dominant energy.

 

Dollification – Transforming a partner into a “doll” through makeup, clothing, or objectification. Erotic because it erases autonomy and emphasizes beauty and control.

 

Domestic Discipline – A lifestyle kink where a dominant enforces rules and punishments in a household. Erotic for its structured authority and intimate control.

 

Domestic Servitude – A fetish for being a servant in domestic settings, performing chores and duties erotically. The appeal is obedience, humiliation, and ritualized service.

 

Domination – The erotic act of exerting power and control over another. Erotic through authority, punishment, and worship.

 

Double Penetration (DP) – A fetish where a person is penetrated by two objects or partners simultaneously. The thrill is intensity, fullness, and taboo excitement.

 

Douching – Cleaning out the anus or vagina before sex. For some, the ritual itself becomes a fetish linked to control, hygiene, and preparation.

 

Duct Tape – Using duct tape for bondage, gags, or restriction. Erotic because of its roughness, immobilization, and improvisational kink.

 

E-Stim (Electro-Stimulation) – Erotic play using electrical currents to stimulate nerves or genitals. The sharp shocks and tingling sensations blend pain and pleasure.

 

Eating Pussy – Oral sex performed on the vulva. Erotic for its worship, intimacy, and submissive devotion.

 

Edge Play – High-risk kinks that push physical or psychological limits, such as breath play, blood play, or knife play. Erotic because of danger and intensity.

 

Edging – The act of bringing a partner to the brink of orgasm and then denying release. A fetish for frustration, control, and prolonged arousal.

 

Electrical Play – Using electricity for erotic sensation. From violet wands to TENS units, the fetish excites through tingling, shocks, and edge play intensity.

 

Emotional Masochism – A fetish where arousal comes from experiencing humiliation, rejection, or emotional pain. Many find deep erotic intensity in surrendering not just physically but psychologically.

 

Emotional Sadism – The counterpart to emotional masochism, where pleasure comes from inflicting humiliation or emotional control. Erotic for the power of words, shame, and psychological dominance.

 

Encasement Fetish – A kink where the body is fully enclosed in latex, rubber, plastic, or other tight material. Erotic because of immobility, sensory focus, and transformation into an object.

 

Enemas – The use of enemas for erotic play, combining medical fetish, cleansing rituals, and taboo anal stimulation.

 

Energy Play – A fetish centered on the exchange of sexual or spiritual energy through touch, intention, or ritual. Often linked to tantra or chakra play, where arousal is felt beyond the physical.

 

Enforced Bedtime – A form of control play where a dominant sets strict sleep schedules. The fetish blends age play, discipline, and erotic authority.

 

Erotic Literature – Written stories or text designed to arouse. The fetish thrives on imagination, anticipation, and word-based seduction.

 

Erotic Massage – Massage that blends relaxation with sexual arousal. Erotic for its sensual touch, teasing buildup, and intimate attention.

 

Erotic Photography – Visual arousal through erotic or nude images. The fetish celebrates aesthetics, voyeurism, and capturing sexuality as art.

 

Exhibitionism – Sexual thrill from exposing oneself or performing sexually in front of others. Erotic for its taboo, risk, and thrill of being seen.

 

Eye Contact – A fetish for sustained eye gazing during intimacy. Erotic because it heightens vulnerability, connection, and unspoken desire.

 

Eye Contact Restrictions – A kink where submissives are forbidden to look into a dominant’s eyes. Erotic for its control, humiliation, and ritualized hierarchy.

 

Face Farting – A fetish where flatulence is directed onto a partner’s face. Erotic for humiliation, taboo, and raw intimacy.

 

Face Fucking – Oral penetration performed with force, where the giver’s mouth is used for dominance. The fetish thrives on gag reflex, submission, and intensity.

 

Face Sitting / Smothering – A dominant partner sits on the submissive’s face, often for oral service. Erotic for its power, control, and forced worship.

 

Face Slapping – A fetish involving slapping the face for humiliation or intensity. The sting, sound, and shock heighten arousal and dominance.

 

Facesitting – (see Face Sitting) The act of sitting on a partner’s face for oral pleasure or control. Often a form of FemDom power play.

 

Facial Hair – Attraction to beards, mustaches, or stubble. The fetish is tactile and visual, often linked to masculinity and dominance.

 

Facials – A fetish where semen is ejaculated onto a partner’s face. Erotic for its marking, humiliation, and raw visual impact.

 

Fear – Arousal triggered by fear or anticipation of danger. Often tied to adrenaline, vulnerability, and psychological intensity.

 

Fear Play – A kink that deliberately invokes controlled fear, such as knives, threats, or roleplay. Erotic because of adrenaline and trust.

 

Feathers – Using feathers to tickle and tease the body. A fetish for light sensation play that builds anticipation and helpless laughter.

 

Feet – Attraction to feet in general—shape, scent, or touch. A widespread fetish that can include worship, licking, massaging, or smelling.

 

Female Ejaculation – A fetish centered on women “squirting” during orgasm. The act is celebrated as visual proof of arousal and erotic release.

 

Female Humiliation – A kink where women are degraded or shamed for erotic arousal. Erotic for its power dynamics and surrender of pride.

 

Female Supremacy – The belief or fetish that women are superior and should dominate men. Erotic through power, matriarchy, and female-led authority.

 

FemDom (Female Domination) – A BDSM dynamic where women take the dominant role. Erotic for its inversion of traditional power roles and worship of female authority.

 

Feminization – A fetish where men are dressed or treated as feminine. The thrill lies in humiliation, transformation, and erotic surrender to gender play.

 

Fetish Models – Attraction to performers or models who embody fetish fashion and culture. The fetish thrives on fantasy, worship, and visual representation.

 

Fetish Wear – Clothing associated with kink, such as latex, leather, or PVC. The fetish celebrates transformation, erotic fashion, and the symbolism of power.

 

Fetnights – Social or club gatherings centered on fetish play. Erotic for their community aspect, voyeurism, and live participation in kink culture.

 

Figging – Insertion of raw ginger root into the anus or vagina. The burning sensation excites through pain, humiliation, and intensity.

 

Fingering – Using fingers for vaginal or anal stimulation. Erotic for intimacy, teasing, and versatility in touch.

 

Fingernails – A fetish for long nails or the sensation of being scratched. Erotic for its mix of pain, femininity, and primal energy.

 

Fire Cupping – A ritual where heated cups are placed on the skin to create suction. Erotic for its marks, warmth, and intensity.

 

Fire Flogging – BDSM flogging combined with fire, using flames across the body. A form of edge play that heightens danger and adrenaline.

 

Fire Play – Erotic use of fire near or on the body. The fetish thrives on fear, intensity, and the primal element of flame.

 

Fish Hooks – Inserting hooks into the mouth or skin for restraint or humiliation. Erotic for its raw exposure and primal imagery.

 

Fishnets – A fetish for fishnet stockings. Erotic because of their teasing visibility and association with seduction.

 

Fisting – Insertion of an entire hand into the anus or vagina. The fetish excites through extreme stretch, fullness, and endurance.

 

Flashing – A form of exhibitionism where one briefly exposes genitals or breasts. Erotic for taboo, spontaneity, and thrill of being caught.

 

Flesh Hooks – Suspension or play using hooks inserted into the skin. A form of extreme edge play eroticized for intensity, danger, and ritual.

 

Flirting – Arousal from playful, teasing social interaction. The fetish thrives on anticipation, chemistry, and sexual tension.

 

Flogging – Impact play using multi-tailed whips called floggers. Erotic for its rhythmic sting, deep thud, and ritualistic cadence.

 

FMF Threesomes – A fetish for sexual encounters involving two females and one male. Erotic for variety, taboo, and bisexual undertones.

 

Food Play – Using food items for sexual play—covering, insertion, or feeding. The fetish thrives on mess, indulgence, and sensory fun.

 

Foot Massage – A fetish for massaging feet, often blending relaxation with sexual arousal. Erotic for intimacy and body worship.

 

Foot Worship – Adoring feet through kissing, licking, smelling, or massaging. Erotic for devotion, humiliation, or fetish focus on feet.

 

Foot/Feet – (see Feet) A general fetish attraction to feet in all forms. One of the most common and socially recognized fetishes.

 

Forehead Kisses – A fetish for gentle forehead kisses, often linked to comfort, intimacy, and nurturing. Erotic for those who crave affection that blends innocence with deep emotional connection.

 

Forniphilia – A fetish where submissives are used as human furniture (tables, chairs, lamps). The erotic charge comes from objectification, restraint, and total submission.

 

Freckles – Attraction to freckles on the body or face. Many find freckles playful, unique, and a natural sign of beauty that becomes eroticized.

 

French Maids – A fetish for the classic maid costume, blending servitude, roleplay, and playful eroticism. Often linked to submission, cleaning service play, or exhibitionism.

 

Fucking Machines – Mechanical devices designed to penetrate a partner with rhythm and intensity. Erotic for their relentless pace, objectification, and extreme stimulation.

 

Fur – A fetish for fur clothing, textures, or animal pelts. The softness, warmth, and primal association of fur create sensual excitement.

 

Furry – A fetish or lifestyle involving anthropomorphic animal characters. Erotic expression may involve costumes, roleplay, or erotic art in the furry community.

 

Gagging / Choked by Cock – A fetish where oral penetration intentionally triggers gag reflex. Erotic through intensity, helplessness, and domination.

 

Gags – Restraints placed in the mouth to silence and humiliate. Erotic for their symbolism of control and enforced submission.

 

Gangbangs – A fetish for one person being sexually engaged by multiple partners at once. The intensity lies in attention, risk, and complete surrender.

 

Gas Masks – Fetish gear that covers the face, restricting breath or altering sensation. Erotic through fear, anonymity, and dehumanization.

 

Geeks – Attraction to geeky or nerdy aesthetics. Glasses, intelligence, and cultural quirks become eroticized.

Geisha – A fetish for traditional Japanese geisha imagery, blending elegance, servitude, and restrained eroticism. Often linked to cultural roleplay.

 

Gender Play – A fetish involving fluid or reversed gender roles. Erotic for its taboo, transformation, and play with identity.

 

Genital Piercings – A fetish for piercings on the genitals. The appeal lies in decoration, sensitivity, and erotic transformation

 

Glass Dildos – Smooth, often artistic dildos made of glass. Erotic for their firmness, temperature play, and visual appeal.

 

Glasses – A fetish for eyeglasses. The erotic charge is in intelligence, innocence, or the transformative “sexy librarian” fantasy.

 

Glory Hole – Anonymous sexual encounters through a wall opening. The thrill comes from secrecy, anonymity, and pure physical contact.

 

Gloves – A fetish for gloves of leather, latex, or satin. Erotic for their texture, style, and associations with authority or elegance.

 

Goddess Worship – Devotional submission to a female figure as a goddess. Erotic because it blends spirituality, adoration, and erotic slavery.

 

Gor – Fetish based on the fictional “Gorean” world of John Norman’s novels, emphasizing strict dominance/submission and master/slave dynamics.

 

Gorean Slave Positions – Ritualized poses used in Gorean culture to demonstrate submission. Erotic for their discipline, obedience, and aesthetic control.

 

Goth – Attraction to gothic style—dark clothing, makeup, and culture. Erotic for its rebellious, mysterious, and sensual vibe.

 

Graphoerotica – A fetish for sexual writing or being aroused by writing erotically on the body. Erotic because of words, ink, and intimacy.

 

Grooming – Erotic attention to hair, shaving, trimming, or personal care. Often tied to intimacy, ritual, and control.

 

Group Sex – Sexual activity involving three or more partners. Erotic for variety, risk, and communal pleasure.

 

Hair – A fetish for hair, whether on the head, body, or pubic area. Erotic because of its texture, style, and cultural symbolism.

 

Hair Bondage – Restraining or controlling someone using their hair. Erotic for its intimacy, pain, and humiliation.

 

Hair Pulling – A fetish for tugging or yanking hair during sex. Erotic for its animalistic dominance and primal roughness.

 

Hairbrush Spanking – Impact play using a hairbrush. The sting and household object add humiliation and erotic punishment.

 

Handcuffs – Metal restraints used in bondage. Erotic for their symbolism of arrest, helplessness, and loss of control.

 

Handjobs – Manual stimulation of the penis. Erotic for its intimacy, versatility, and teasing control.

 

Hands – Attraction to hands, their size, strength, or touch. Erotic for their ability to dominate, caress, or restrain.

 

Head Shaving – A fetish for shaving one’s head or a partner’s. Erotic for its associations with control, humiliation, and transformation.

 

Hemp Rope – Natural rope used in bondage. Erotic for its texture, smell, and strength, often favored in shibari.

 

Hentai – Japanese animated pornography, often featuring exaggerated fantasies and taboo scenarios. Erotic for its limitless possibilities.

 

High Heels – A fetish for high-heeled shoes. Erotic because of the posture, power, and symbolism of dominance or femininity.

 

High Protocol – A strict form of BDSM etiquette where submissives follow detailed rituals of behavior. Erotic for its discipline, structure, and power hierarchy.

 

Hojojutsu – A Japanese martial art of rope tying adapted into erotic bondage. Fetishized for its restraint, beauty, and ritualistic roots.

 

Hucow Fetish - The HuCow fetish (short for “human cow”) is a niche BDSM/fetish dynamic that blends elements of erotic roleplay, power exchange, and sometimes lactation kinks. Core Concept. A HuCow is a submissive roleplay persona where a person (usually female, but not exclusively) takes on the role of a “human cow.” The “farmer” or “handler” assumes the dominant role, treating the HuCow as livestock within the fantasy. It’s less about real agriculture and more about objectification, ownership, and control within a kink framework. Common Elements Milking Fantasy: Roleplay often centers around milking, either with physical devices (breast pumps) or simulated play. Restraints/Confinement: Bondage, cages, or stables are used to heighten the livestock theme. Transformation Play: Costumes (e.g., cow-print outfits, collars, horns, udders) may be used to reinforce the role. Humiliation/Dehumanization: Many HuCow scenarios involve verbal degradation, objectification, and loss of “human” identity. Lactation Fetish: Some participants incorporate real lactation or breast expansion play, though this isn’t universal. Psychological Dynamics. Appeals to those aroused by objectification, loss of autonomy, or transformation into property. For dominants, it emphasizes control, ownership, and animalistic play. For submissives, it often blends humiliation, service, and sexual objectification in a highly ritualized or eroticized way. Safety & Considerations. Consent is critical—this fetish involves extreme roleplay, humiliation, and sometimes physical devices. Negotiation first: Boundaries ( language, duration of role, physical limits) should be established. Aftercare is especially important, since dehumanization play can be psychologically intense. Health risks: Overuse of breast pumps or forced lactation without medical guidance can cause harm—play should remain safe and consensual.

 

Honesty – A fetish for raw, truthful expression in sexual or D/s dynamics. Erotic because vulnerability becomes arousal.

 

Hoods – Masks or hoods that fully cover the head in bondage play. Erotic for anonymity, dehumanization, and sensory deprivation.

 

Hook Suspension – Extreme edge play where the body is suspended by hooks inserted through the skin. Erotic for its danger, surrender, and ritualistic intensity.

 

Hot Oil Massages – Sensual massages with warmed oils. Erotic for their glide, intimacy, and teasing buildup of sexual tension.

 

Hotwife – A married or partnered woman who has sexual encounters outside her relationship with her partner’s consent. Erotic for its mix of cuckolding, empowerment, and taboo excitement.

 

Human Ashtray – A humiliation fetish where a submissive’s body is used as an ashtray. Erotic for degradation, ownership, and taboo servitude.

 

Human Doll – A fetish for transforming a partner into a doll through makeup, clothing, or objectification. Erotic for its blend of beauty, control, and dehumanization.

 

Human Furniture – Using a submissive as furniture such as tables, chairs, or footstools. Erotic for its objectification, restraint, and service.

 

Human Toilet – An extreme fetish where a submissive is used for urination or defecation. Eroticized through humiliation, degradation, and total surrender.

 

Humiliation – A broad fetish for degradation, embarrassment, or loss of dignity. Erotic for its intensity, vulnerability, and power exchange.

 

Humor – A fetish for erotic play infused with laughter, jokes, or comedy. Erotic because it disarms, teases, and makes sex playful and lighthearted.

 

Ice Cubes – A fetish for using ice on the body during play. The sudden shock of cold against warm skin heightens sensitivity, making every touch sharper and more erotic.

 

Impact Play – A broad kink involving striking the body with hands, paddles, whips, or other tools. Erotic for its rhythm, sting, thud, and the intimacy of giving and receiving pain.

 

Impregnation Fantasy – Arousal from the idea of becoming pregnant or impregnating a partner. Erotic for its primal drive, taboo of breeding, and sense of raw ownership.

 

Infantilism – A fetish for roleplaying as a baby or childlike persona, often overlapping with ABDL. The arousal comes from vulnerability, nurturing, and taboo regression.

 

Infidelity – A fetish for cheating or being cheated on. Erotic because of its secrecy, risk, and the thrill of betrayal as a forbidden act.

 

Inflatables – A kink involving inflatable toys, suits, or objects. Erotic for their fullness, tightness, and sometimes objectification fantasies.

 

Intelligence – Attraction to smart, articulate partners. Erotic because intellect becomes foreplay, turning words and ideas into sexual energy.

 

Internal Enslavement – A deep psychological kink where submission feels total, reaching beyond physical control into mental or emotional ownership.

 

Interracial Sex – A fetish for sexual encounters between people of different races. Erotic through taboo, contrast, and cultural differences.

Interrogation – Roleplay where a dominant “interrogates” a submissive, often involving restraint, questioning, and psychological pressure. Erotic for fear, vulnerability, and power imbalance.

 

Japanese Bondage – Traditional rope bondage from Japan, known for its beauty and intricate knots. Erotic for its ritual, restraint, and visual artistry.

 

Kicking – A fetish where the body, especially sensitive areas, is kicked. Erotic for its intensity, pain, and humiliation.

 

Kilts – Attraction to kilts and the masculine cultural imagery they carry. Erotic for tradition, exposure, and fetish fashion.

 

Kinbaku – The Japanese art of erotic rope tying, emphasizing aesthetics and vulnerability. Erotic for its ritualistic beauty, restraint, and surrender.

 

Kissing – A fetish where kissing itself is the ultimate erotic act. Erotic for intimacy, teasing, and emotional depth.

 

Kitten Petplay – A form of animal roleplay where a submissive embodies a kitten. Erotic for its playfulness, obedience, and nurturing dominance.

 

Klismaphilia – A fetish for enemas, often linked to medical play. Erotic through taboo, vulnerability, and internal sensation.

 

Knee-High Socks – A fetish for socks reaching the knees, associated with innocence, schoolgirl imagery, and playful eroticism.

 

Kneeling – A fetish where submission is symbolized through kneeling. Erotic for its humility, worship, and ritual of surrender.

 

Knife Play – A form of edge play using knives for sensation, fear, or symbolic control. Erotic because of danger, trust, and psychological intensity.

 

Lace – Attraction to lace clothing or lingerie. Erotic for its delicacy, see-through teasing, and sensual femininity.

 

Lactation – A fetish for breast milk or nursing play. Erotic for its nurturing intimacy and taboo appeal.

 

Large Labia – Attraction to prominent labia. Erotic for their unique beauty, texture, and visual rawness.

 

Large Objects – A fetish for insertion of oversized toys or items. Erotic for its intensity, fullness, and pushing of limits.

 

Latex – A popular fetish material, celebrated for its shine, tightness, and second-skin effect. Erotic for its transformation, smell, and body-hugging allure.

 

Leather – A classic fetish material symbolizing strength, dominance, and rebellion. Erotic for its smell, texture, and cultural associations.

 

Legs – A fetish for legs, whether exposed, in stockings, or heels. Erotic because of their strength, length, and sensuality.

 

Librarians – A roleplay fetish for librarian figures. Erotic for its mix of innocence, authority, and the fantasy of “unleashing” hidden passion.

 

Licking – A fetish for licking body parts, from toes to genitals. Erotic for its intimacy, devotion, and primal sensuality.

 

Light Bondage – Mild forms of restraint such as scarves or light rope. Erotic for beginners, blending control with sensuality.

 

Lingerie – A fetish for erotic undergarments like bras, panties, and corsets. Erotic for their tease, transformation, and seduction.

 

Lipstick – Attraction to lipstick, its color, scent, and marks. Erotic for its feminine power and visual stimulation.

 

Liquor – A fetish for erotic use of alcohol, from drinking rituals to body shots. Erotic for its taste, taboo, and loosening of inhibitions.

 

Long Hair – Attraction to long hair, whether stroking, pulling, or worshipping it. Erotic for its beauty, sensuality, and animalistic appeal.

 

Love – Erotic focus on emotional connection and romance. For some, love itself becomes fetishized as the ultimate arousal.

 

Lycra / Spandex – A fetish for tight, stretchy fabrics. Erotic for their second-skin look, athletic associations, and shiny appeal.

 

Maid – A fetish for maid roleplay. Erotic for servitude, uniform aesthetics, and submissive fantasies.

 

Maid Uniforms – Attraction to maid costumes. Erotic for their symbolism of service, discipline, and playful submission.

 

Makeup – A fetish for cosmetics and their transformative power. Erotic for their association with beauty, femininity, and fantasy.

 

Making Home Movies – Arousal from recording sexual activity on camera. Erotic for voyeurism, exhibitionism, and reliving erotic moments.

 

Making Out – Passionate kissing and touching as the erotic focus. Erotic for its teasing intimacy and slow build.

 

Male Authority – A fetish for dominance from male figures. Erotic for its association with power, control, and patriarchy.

 

Male Submission – A fetish for men surrendering control. Erotic because it subverts traditional gender norms and highlights vulnerability.

 

Manhandling – Rough, forceful physical handling by a partner. Erotic for its domination, helplessness, and primal energy.

 

Martial Arts – A fetish for combat, discipline, or martial attire. Erotic for strength, control, and power dynamics

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Masks – Wearing masks during erotic play. Erotic for anonymity, transformation, and mystery.

 

Masochism – A fetish for deriving pleasure from pain. Erotic for its mix of endurance, vulnerability, and intensity.

 

Massage – Arousal from sensual massage. Erotic for its relaxation, teasing buildup, and intimate touch

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Massages – General fetish for giving or receiving massages. Erotic for physical closeness, touch, and body worship.

 

Master/Slave – A BDSM dynamic of total power exchange, where one partner becomes “Master” and the other “slave.” Erotic for its intensity, ritual, and surrender of autonomy.

 

Masturbation – Self-stimulation of the genitals for pleasure. As a fetish, it can involve mutual viewing, guided

masturbation, or being ordered to perform. Erotic for its intimacy, vulnerability, and raw self-indulgence.

 

Medical Play – A fetish involving clinical roleplay, exams, and instruments. Erotic because of its authority, taboo, and the vulnerability of being “treated.”

 

Medieval Devices – A fetish for old torture or restraint equipment such as stocks, racks, or iron cages. Erotic for their historical cruelty, aesthetic appeal, and extreme symbolism of submission.

 

Mental Bondage – A form of bondage where control is psychological, not physical. A dominant may command stillness or impose “imaginary restraints,” erotic for its discipline and mental surrender.

 

Metal – A fetish for metallic clothing, restraints, or objects. Erotic for its coldness, hardness, and symbolism of industrial power.

 

Military – A fetish for military culture, authority, and uniforms. Erotic for discipline, control, and rigid power hierarchy.

 

Military Interrogation – A roleplay fetish where a submissive is “captured” and interrogated by a military figure. Erotic for fear, restraint, and authority.

 

Military Uniforms – Attraction to uniforms worn by soldiers or officers. Erotic because of their strict appearance, power, and symbolic masculinity or authority.

 

Mind Control – A fetish for hypnosis, brainwashing, or psychological dominance. Erotic for its fantasy of surrendering all willpower.

 

Mind Fucks – Psychological manipulation or trickery used in erotic play. Erotic because they destabilize, confuse, and heighten vulnerability.

 

Mistress/slave – A BDSM dynamic where a female dominant owns and commands a submissive. Erotic for its power exchange, ritualized control, and female authority.

 

Mistresses with Strap-Ons – A fetish where female dominants penetrate submissives with strap-ons. Erotic for role reversal, pegging, and the symbolism of power.

 

MMF Threesomes – A threesome involving two men and one woman. Erotic for bisexual undertones, variety, and focus on shared pleasure.

 

Mommy/Boy Dynamics – Age play roleplay where the dominant embodies a maternal figure and the submissive takes a younger, boylike role. Erotic for its nurturing dominance and taboo edge.

 

Mommy/girl – Similar to Mommy/boy dynamics, but focused on female submissives paired with a maternal dominant. Erotic for comfort, control, and nurturing taboo.

 

Monogamy – Though seen as traditional, monogamy can be fetishized as an exclusive devotion to one partner. Erotic because commitment, ownership, and loyalty are intensified.

 

Morning Sex – A fetish for intimacy and sex upon waking. Erotic for its rawness, vulnerability, and sleepy sensuality.

 

Multiple Orgasms – A fetish for achieving or forcing repeated orgasms. Erotic for exhaustion, overstimulation, and the relentless wave of pleasure.

 

Mummification – A fetish where a body is fully wrapped in tape, plastic, or bandages. Erotic for its restraint, sensory deprivation, and helpless exposure.

 

Muscle Worship – A fetish for admiring and touching muscular bodies. Erotic because of strength, power, and physical perfection.

 

Muscles – Attraction to muscular physiques. Erotic for their aesthetic, power, and the sense of dominance or protection they embody.

 

Music – Erotic arousal from music, lyrics, or rhythm during play. Erotic because sound heightens atmosphere and emotional immersion.

 

Mutual Masturbation – A fetish for partners pleasuring themselves while watching each other. Erotic for its intimacy, vulnerability, and shared arousal.

 

Neck Biting – A fetish for biting or being bitten on the neck. Erotic because it blends passion, pain, and primal dominance.

 

Neck Kissing/Touching – Erotic attention to the neck through kisses, licks, or touches. Erotic for its sensitivity, vulnerability, and teasing intimacy.

 

Necks – A fetish for necks in general—their shape, skin, or exposure. Erotic for vulnerability and sensuality.

 

Needle Play – A form of edge play involving needles inserted into the skin. Erotic for pain, fear, and visual ritual.

 

Nipple Clamps – Devices that pinch nipples for pain and heightened sensitivity. Erotic for their sting, endurance, and marks.

 

Nipple Piercings – Attraction to pierced nipples. Erotic for decoration, sensitivity, and rebellious allure.

 

Nipple Play – Erotic stimulation of nipples by licking, sucking, biting, or toys. Erotic because nipples are highly

sensitive erogenous zones.

 

Nipples – A fetish for nipples in general, regardless of stimulation. Erotic for their appearance, texture, and role in arousal.

 

Nudity – A fetish for being or seeing others completely naked. Erotic because it symbolizes vulnerability, freedom, and raw intimacy.

 

Nun/Priest Play – A fetish for religious roleplay involving nuns, priests, or clergy. Erotic because of taboo, discipline, and forbidden desire.

 

Nylon Legs & Feet – A fetish for legs and feet in nylon stockings or pantyhose. Erotic for their silky texture and teasing appearance.

 

Nyotaimori (Body Sushi) – A fetish where sushi or food is served on a nude body. Erotic for its blend of decadence, taboo, and sensory indulgence.

 

Obedience Training – A BDSM practice where submissives are trained through rules, discipline, and ritualized control. Erotic because surrender becomes devotion.

 

Objectification – Treating a submissive as an object forpleasure, stripping away individuality. Erotic for its intensity, control, and dehumanization.

 

Old Guard Slavery – Traditional BDSM culture emphasizing rituals, discipline, and strict Master/slave hierarchies. Erotic for its structure, heritage, and authenticity.

 

Older Men – Attraction to older men. Erotic for experience, authority, and fatherly dominance.

 

Older Women – Attraction to mature women. Erotic for confidence, power, and nurturing dominance.

 

Online Play – A fetish for engaging in sexual play digitally, through chat, video, or roleplay. Erotic for its anonymity, imagination, and accessibility.

 

Oral Sex – A fetish for oral stimulation of genitals. Erotic for intimacy, worship, and primal connection.

 

Ordered to Masturbate – A kink where a submissive is commanded to touch themselves. Erotic for its mix of humiliation, control, and voyeurism.

 

Orgasm Control – A fetish where one partner decides when the other may orgasm. Erotic for frustration, denial, and ultimate surrender.

 

Orgasm Denial – A practice where orgasm is deliberately withheld. Erotic because it intensifies arousal and deepens control.

 

Orgy – Sexual activity involving multiple participants. Erotic for variety, communal energy, and the breaking oftaboos.

 

OTK Spanking (Over-the-Knee) – Spanking performed with a submissive bent over a lap. Erotic for its intimacy, humiliation, and domestic discipline aesthetic.

 

Outdoor Bondage – Bondage performed outside. Erotic for its mix of risk, exposure, and natural setting.

 

Outdoor Sex – A fetish for having sex outside. Erotic for its risk, thrill of being seen, and connection with nature.

 

Paddling – Impact play with a paddle. Erotic for its thuddy strikes, lasting marks, and ritualized punishment energy.

 

 

Pain – A central aspect of BDSM where arousal comes from experiencing or inflicting pain. Erotic for its intensity, endorphin rush, and psychological surrender.

 

Panties – A fetish for women’s underwear. Erotic for their texture, scent, and the taboo of intimacy and hidden clothing.

 

Panty-Sniffing – A fetish for smelling worn panties. Erotic because of their scent, which symbolizes intimacy, arousal, and secret access.

 

Pantyhose / Stockings – Attraction to hosiery that highlights legs and feet. Erotic for their silky texture, elegance, and teasing transparency.

 

Pegging – A sexual practice where a woman penetrates a man anally with a strap-on. Erotic for role reversal, prostate stimulation, and submission.

 

Percussion Play – Using rhythmic strikes or sounds (drums, clapping, rhythmic impact) in kink. Erotic for sensory immersion and hypnotic intensity.

 

Pet Play – A fetish where submissives roleplay as animals (puppies, kittens, ponies). Erotic for obedience, caretaking, and playful transformation.

 

Petplay – (see Pet Play) Focused animal roleplay blending costume, behavior, and obedience. Erotic for identity play and primal surrender.

 

Petticoats – A fetish for frilly petticoats, often tied to sissification, feminization, or retro roleplay. Erotic for their feminine aesthetic.

 

Phone Sex – Erotic arousal through sexual conversations over the phone. Erotic for its imagination, anonymity, and voice-based seduction.

 

Photography – A fetish for erotic or nude photography. Erotic because it captures sexuality as art and combines voyeurism with exhibitionism.

 

Piercings – Attraction to body piercings, often on nipples, genitals, or faces. Erotic for decoration, rebellion, and heightened sensitivity.

 

Piggy Play – A fetish involving pig roleplay, often with humiliation themes. Erotic for degradation, animal play, and taboo surrender.

 

Pigtails – A fetish for pigtail hairstyles. Erotic for their associations with innocence, schoolgirl imagery, and playfulsubmission.

 

Pin-Ups – A fetish for vintage-style pin-up art and fashion. Erotic for its glamour, tease, and nostalgic sensuality.

 

Pinching – A fetish for pinching the skin. Erotic for its sting, surprise, and playful cruelty.

 

Pirates – A fetish for pirate-themed roleplay. Erotic for its costumes, dominance, and adventurous fantasy.

 

Play Piercing – Temporary piercings done during a scene for erotic sensation and aesthetic. Erotic for pain, ritual, and intensity.

 

Play Punishment – Punishment administered in a playful or roleplay context. Erotic for its mix of discipline and fantasy.

 

Polyamory – A fetishized or lifestyle attraction to multiple consensual relationships. Erotic for its openness, variety, and rejection of monogamy.

 

Pony Play – A form of pet play where submissives act as ponies, often with harnesses, bridles, and gaits. Erotic for its mix of animal roleplay, bondage, and power exchange.

 

Porn – A fetish for consuming pornography. Erotic for its visual stimulation, fantasy, and endless variety.

 

Posture Collars – Rigid collars that force upright posture. Erotic for their aesthetic of strict control and physical restriction.

 

Power Exchange – A fetish for shifting control between partners. Erotic for its negotiation, trust, and the erotic charge of surrender.

 

Predator / Prey – A roleplay fetish where one partner hunts and the other flees. Erotic for adrenaline, fear, and primal energy.

 

Predicament Bondage – Bondage that forces the submissive into painful or difficult positions. Erotic for endurance, helplessness, and mental struggle.

 

Pregnant – A fetish for pregnancy. Erotic for its fertility symbolism, fullness, and taboo appeal.

 

Pressure Points – A fetish for manipulating body pressure points. Erotic for pain, control, and martial-arts-inspired dominance.

 

Primal – A fetish for raw, instinctual sexuality, often involving growling, scratching, and roughness. Erotic for its animalistic authenticity.

 

Primal Play – A structured version of primal fetish play. Erotic for its raw energy, lack of roles, and surrender to instinct.

 

Pro Domme – A professional dominatrix. Erotic for her authority, experience, and the fantasy of being trained or owned.

 

Prostate Massage – Stimulation of the prostate gland, often via fingers or toys. Erotic for its intensity and potential to trigger powerful orgasms.

 

Prostate Milking – A fetish for repeatedly stimulating the prostate to produce fluid. Erotic for its mix of pleasure, release, and control.

 

Protocol – Ritualized rules of behavior within BDSM dynamics. Erotic because structure and obedience become a form of devotion.

 

Psycholagny – Arousal triggered by intense conversation or deep connection. Erotic for its intellectual intimacy.

 

Pubic Hair – A fetish for pubic hair, whether natural, trimmed, or styled. Erotic for its primal look and sensual texture.

 

Public Humiliation – A fetish for being degraded or embarrassed in front of others. Erotic for exposure, shame, and vulnerability.

 

Public Play – Engaging in sexual activity in semi-public places. Erotic for its risk, secrecy, and chance of being caught.

 

Punching Play – Impact play involving punching specific areas of the body. Erotic for its force, brutality, and primal energy.

 

Punishment – A BDSM practice where misbehavior is corrected through pain or humiliation. Erotic for its structure, discipline, and emotional intensity.

 

Puppy Play – A form of pet play where submissives embody puppies. Erotic for obedience, loyalty, and playful intimacy.

 

Pursuit, Take-Down & Capture – A fetish for being chased, overpowered, and caught. Erotic for adrenaline, fear, and primal dominance.

 

Pussy Pumping – Using suction devices to swell and sensitize the vulva. Erotic for its visual transformation and heightened sensitivity.

 

Pussy Spanking – Impact play focused on striking the vulva. Erotic for its sting, humiliation, and overwhelming arousal.

 

Pussy Worship – Adoring the vulva through licking, kissing, and praising. Erotic for its focus on devotion and surrender to feminine sexuality.

 

PVC – A fetish for shiny PVC clothing. Erotic for its slick appearance, tightness, and fetish fashion appeal.

 

Queening – A form of facesitting where the submissive is smothered beneath the dominant’s vagina. Erotic for its mix of worship, power, and control.

 

Race Play – A highly controversial fetish involving racial stereotypes or dynamics. Erotic for taboo, power exchange, and cultural roleplay—always requiring extreme negotiation and consent.

 

Redheads – A fetish for red hair. Erotic for its rarity, fiery symbolism, and unique beauty.

 

Religious Play – Roleplay involving religious symbols, clergy, or rituals. Erotic for its blasphemy, discipline, and breaking of sacred taboos.

 

Remote-Control Devices – Sex toys or restraints operated by remote control. Erotic for their unpredictability, long-distance dominance, and the thrill of surrendering control to another’s hands.

 

Restraints – Tools used to restrict movement, from ropes to cuffs. Erotic for their symbolism of captivity, helplessness, and trust in bondage.

 

Retifism – A fetish for shoes or footwear. Erotic for their style, scent, and the power of feet and legs as objects of desire.

 

Riding Crops – Short whips used in impact play. Erotic for their sharp sting, authority associations, and visual dominance.

 

Rimming (Analingus) – Oral stimulation of the anus. Erotic for its taboo, intimacy, and raw vulnerability.

 

Rituals – Structured acts within kink or sex, such as kneeling, presenting, or ceremonial touch. Erotic for their discipline, symbolism, and heightened atmosphere.

 

Road Head – Oral sex performed while driving. Erotic for its risk, danger, and exhibitionistic thrill.

 

Robots – A fetish for robotic figures, androids, or mechanized roleplay. Erotic for themes of control, objectification, and futuristic fantasy.

 

Role Play – Acting out scenarios, from professions to fantasies. Erotic for its creativity, taboo-breaking, and immersive transformation.

 

Rope – A fetish for rope itself, its texture, smell, and bondage potential. Erotic for its ritual use and symbolic surrender.

 

Rope Bondage – Using rope to bind the body. Erotic for restraint, vulnerability, and the beauty of rope marks.

 

Rope Bondage / Suspension – Rope bondage taken to aerial suspension. Erotic for helplessness, beauty, and edge-play intensity.

 

Rope Play – General rope-centered fetish activities. Erotic for its artistry, intimacy, and control.

 

Rough Sex – Sex involving forceful thrusts, hair pulling, spanking, and aggression. Erotic for its primal intensity and surrender to raw energy.

 

Rubber – A fetish for rubber clothing or gear. Erotic for its shine, tightness, and sensory confinement.

 

Sacred Sexuality – A fetish blending spirituality and eroticism. Erotic for its ritual, reverence, and transcendence of physical intimacy.

 

Sadism – Arousal from inflicting pain or humiliation. Erotic for its control, cruelty, and power exchange.

 

Sadomasochism – The dynamic exchange between sadists (pain givers) and masochists (pain receivers). Erotic for its balance, intensity, and psychological depth.

 

Sapiosexuality – Attraction to intelligence as the primary turn-on. Erotic because intellect itself becomes a sexual energy.

 

Saran Wrap (Plastic Wrap Bondage) – Restricting the body with cling film. Erotic for immobilization, heat, and helplessness.

 

Satin – A fetish for satin fabric, prized for its smoothness and sheen. Erotic for its luxury and sensual touch.

 

Scarf Bondage – Bondage using scarves as restraints. Erotic for softness, improvisation, and romantic sensuality.

 

Scarification – Cutting the skin to leave permanent scars as erotic art. Erotic for its pain, ritual, and ownership symbolism.

 

Scent – A fetish for body scents such as sweat, musk, or perfume. Erotic for its primal, intimate connection to desire

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Schoolgirl – A fetish for schoolgirl roleplay, often involving uniforms. Erotic for innocence, taboo, and power imbalance.

 

Schoolgirl Uniform – Attraction to school uniforms. Erotic for their symbolic innocence and disciplined structure.

 

Scratching – Using nails or objects to scratch the skin erotically. Erotic for its mix of pain, animalistic energy, and marking.

 

Seduction – A fetish for the act of being seduced or seducing. Erotic for its tension, teasing, and psychological play.

 

Self-Bondage – Binding oneself for solo erotic play. Erotic for helplessness, risk, and personal surrender.

 

Sensation Play – Exploring the senses with tools like feathers, ice, or wax. Erotic for anticipation and contrast between sensations.

 

Sensory Deprivation – Restricting sight, sound, or touch. Erotic for vulnerability, disorientation, and surrender.

 

Sensual Domination – A dominance style focused on erotic, tender control. Erotic for its nurturing yet commanding presence.

 

Sensual Play – A fetish for soft, arousing touch and erotic exploration. Erotic for its focus on tenderness and pleasure.

 

Sensual/Slave Dances – Erotic dances performed in D/s settings. Erotic for their ritual devotion and seductive power.

 

Sensualism – A fetish centered on indulgence of the senses. Erotic for its immersion in touch, smell, taste, sight, and sound.

 

Service – A fetish where submissives find arousal in serving dominants. Erotic for its obedience, ritual, and devotion.

 

Service-Oriented Submission – Submission expressed through acts of service, such as chores or rituals. Erotic for its dedication and devotion.

 

Sex – A fetish for sex itself as the ultimate act. Erotic for its primal drive, intimacy, and boundless variation.

 

Sex in Public – Engaging in sex in public spaces. Erotic for risk, taboo, and thrill of exposure.

 

Sex in the Cemetery – A fetish for sex in graveyards. Erotic for its taboo, gothic atmosphere, and association with death and forbidden places.

 

Sex in the Kitchen – A fetish for sex in kitchens. Erotic for domestic taboo, risk, and playful spontaneity.

 

Sex in Videostore Porn Rooms – A fetish linked to sex in adult theater booths. Erotic for voyeurism, taboo, and anonymity.

 

Sex Magick – Using sexual energy for ritual or spiritual purposes. Erotic for its mysticism, ritual, and transformation of sex into transcendence.

 

Sex Online – Engaging in digital or cyber sex. Erotic for its anonymity, creativity, and distance control.

 

Sex with Strangers – A fetish for anonymous encounters. Erotic for its risk, mystery, and raw physicality.

 

Sexting – Sending sexual texts, images, or videos. Erotic for its anticipation, secrecy, and digital seduction.

 

Sexual Objectification – Reducing someone to an object of sexual use. Erotic for its power dynamics, ownership, and control.

 

Sexual Slavery – A roleplay fetish where a submissive is treated as property. Erotic for its extremity, ritual, and surrender of autonomy.

 

Shackles – Heavy restraints used in bondage. Erotic for their weight, coldness, and symbolism of captivity.

 

Shaving – A fetish for shaving body hair, especially genitals. Erotic for its intimacy, transformation, and vulnerability.

 

Shibari – The Japanese art of intricate rope bondage. Erotic for its blend of restraint, beauty, and ritualized surrender, where rope marks the body as art.

 

Shoes – A fetish for footwear of all kinds, from heels to sneakers. Erotic for their symbolism of power, style, scent, and their connection to foot fetishism.

 

Shower Sex – A fetish for intimacy under running water. Erotic for its wet, slippery intensity and the sensory experience of heat and skin-to-skin contact.

 

Showering Together – Bathing with a partner, often blending intimacy, cleanliness, and playful eroticism. Erotic because of vulnerability and shared sensuality.

 

Silk – A fetish for silk fabrics, prized for their smoothness and luxury. Erotic for their texture against the skin and associations with elegance and seduction.

 

Single Tail Whips – Long whips with a single lash. Erotic for their sharp precision, stinging pain, and dramatic crack.

 

Sissification – A fetish for feminizing a submissive male, often with clothing, makeup, or roleplay. Erotic for its humiliation, transformation, and taboo reversal.

 

Sissy – A submissive male who adopts exaggerated feminine traits in kink. Erotic for role reversal, humiliation, and playful surrender.

 

Sissy Panties – Feminine lingerie worn by submissive men. Erotic for humiliation, gender play, and forced femininity.

 

Sissy Training – Structured feminization play where a submissive learns to act, dress, or think in feminine ways. Erotic for transformation, discipline, and humiliation.

 

Sister/Brother Roleplay – Taboo roleplay involving sibling dynamics. Erotic because of its forbidden nature and playful power reversal, though always fantasy.

 

Skirts – A fetish for skirts, whether short, pleated, or professional. Erotic for their exposure, teasing potential, and associations with femininity.

 

Slapping – Impact play involving open-handed strikes. Erotic for its sting, humiliation, and intensity.

 

Slave Bells – Small bells attached to collars or anklets, signaling movement of submissives. Erotic for their ritual, symbolism, and constant reminder of servitude.

 

Slave Tattoos – Permanent tattoos marking submission or ownership. Erotic for their ritual permanence, devotion, and ownership symbolism.

 

Slavery – A consensual BDSM roleplay of total ownership. Erotic for its intensity, surrender, and structured hierarchy.

 

Sleep – A fetish for watching or engaging in intimacy while a partner sleeps or pretends to. Erotic for its vulnerability, taboo, and caretaking dynamic.

 

Sleepsacks – Restrictive bondage gear resembling sleeping bags. Erotic for complete enclosure, helplessness, and sensory deprivation.

 

Sleepy Sex – A fetish for sex while drowsy, half-asleep, or just waking. Erotic for its vulnerability, intimacy, and dreamy atmosphere.

 

Sluts – A fetish for labeling or treating a partner as a “slut.” Erotic for its humiliation, empowerment, and roleplay of exaggerated promiscuity.

 

Small Penis Humiliation (SPH) – A fetish where submissives are mocked or degraded for penis size. Erotic for humiliation, power reversal, and erotic shame.

 

Small Tits – Attraction to smaller breasts. Erotic for their natural shape, sensitivity, and youthful aesthetic.

 

Smoking – A fetish for smoking cigarettes or cigars. Erotic for its rebellious aesthetic, sensual exhalations, and domination symbolism.

 

Smothering – Erotic play where a partner is partially suffocated with body weight, pillows, or clothing. Erotic for helplessness, fear, and power exchange.

 

Snuggling – A fetish for cuddling closely. Erotic for warmth, intimacy, and affectionate safety.

 

Socks – Attraction to socks, whether athletic, knee-high, or worn. Erotic for their scent, texture, and associations

with feet.

 

Sounding – Inserting rods or sounds into the urethra. Erotic for its intensity, taboo, and extreme stimulation.

 

Sounds – (see Sounding) Tools used for urethral play. Erotic for their medical aesthetic and unique sensations.

 

Spandex – A fetish for stretchy, form-fitting spandex clothing. Erotic for its tightness, sheen, and athletic aesthetic.

 

Spanking – Impact play using hands, paddles, or tools on the buttocks. Erotic for its sting, intimacy, and ritual of punishment.

 

Speculums – Medical instruments used to open the vagina or anus for inspection. Erotic for their clinical intimacy, exposure, and control.

 

Speech Restriction – A fetish where a submissive is forbidden from speaking, or speech is controlled. Erotic for its silence, discipline, and power exchange.

 

Spiritual BDSM – Blending BDSM rituals with spiritual practice. Erotic for its reverence, transcendence, and sacred submission.

 

Spitting – Erotic arousal from saliva being spat on or exchanged. Erotic for its humiliation, rawness, and primal intimacy.

 

Spreader Bars – Metal or wooden bars used to hold limbs apart. Erotic for forced exposure, helplessness, and restraint.

 

Squirting – Female ejaculation during orgasm. Erotic for its intensity, visual display, and primal release.

 

Staples – Medical play involving stapling skin for temporary restraint or decoration. Erotic for its pain, edge play, and ritual intensity.

 

Steampunk – A fetish for steampunk aesthetics in roleplay or fashion. Erotic for costumes, industrial gear, and fantasy.

 

Stockings – A fetish for stockings, often sheer or lace. Erotic for their elegance, tease, and erotic association with legs.

 

Strap-Ons – Harnessed dildos worn for penetration. Erotic for role reversal, pegging, and domination.

 

Submission – The act of surrendering control in a power exchange dynamic. Erotic for its vulnerability, devotion, and freedom through surrender.

 

Subspace – A trance-like state submissives enter during intense play. Erotic for its altered consciousness, euphoria, and surrender.

 

Superheroes – A fetish for superhero costumes or roleplay. Erotic for its power, fantasy, and transformation.

 

Suspension – Bondage where a partner is lifted off the ground. Erotic for its helplessness, artistry, and intensity.

 

Suspension Bondage – Rope or gear-based suspension bondage. Erotic for vulnerability, exposure, and visual drama.

 

Swallowing – A fetish for swallowing fluids, often semen. Erotic for its intimacy, taboo, and submission.

 

Swallowing Cum – (see Swallowing) Erotic for devotion, humiliation, and acceptance of a partner’s release.

 

Sweat – A fetish for sweat, its scent and taste. Erotic for its primal, raw, and natural sexual expression.

 

Swinging – A fetish or lifestyle involving partner swapping or group sex. Erotic for variety, risk, and consensual openness.

 

Switching – A fetish where a person enjoys both dominant and submissive roles. Erotic for versatility, exploration, and balance in power exchange.

 

Sybian – A powerful vibrating sex machine designed for straddling. Erotic for its relentless stimulation, hands-free control, and the fantasy of being “ridden” to uncontrollable orgasm.

 

Talking Dirty – A fetish for erotic language during intimacy. Erotic for its ability to arouse through words, humiliation, or praise, making the mind part of foreplay.

 

Tantra – A spiritual and erotic practice emphasizing prolonged intimacy, breathwork, and sacred sexuality. Erotic for its fusion of energy play, ritual, and transcendence.

 

Tattoos – A fetish for inked skin. Erotic for their decoration, symbolism, and the allure of transformation and rebellion.

 

Teacher/Student – Roleplay where one partner embodies a teacher and the other a student. Erotic for its taboo, authority dynamic, and power imbalance.

 

Tearing off Clothing – A fetish for ripping clothes during passion. Erotic for its aggression, spontaneity, and primal intensity.

 

Tears – Arousal from seeing or experiencing tears. Erotic for vulnerability, catharsis, and the rawness of emotional surrender.

 

Tease & Denial – A fetish where pleasure is built up and withheld. Erotic for its frustration, anticipation, and explosive release when permitted.

 

Teasing – A fetish for playful, drawn-out arousal. Erotic for its slow pace, psychological tension, and erotic control.

 

TENS Unit – A medical device repurposed for electrostimulation on the body. Erotic for tingling, shocks, and edge-play sensation.

 

The No Panties Rule – A fetish for going out without underwear by order of a dominant. Erotic for its secrecy, risk, and constant awareness of submission.

 

Threesomes – A fetish for sex involving three partners. Erotic for variety, attention, and shared intimacy.

 

Throat Fucking – A form of deep oral penetration where the penis dominates the throat. Erotic for its gag reflex, intensity, and submission.

 

Tickling – A fetish for playful or torturous tickling. Erotic for its helplessness, laughter, and heightened sensitivity.

 

Tit Fucking – Sexual stimulation by thrusting between breasts. Erotic for its visual tease, fullness, and breast focus.

 

Tit Slapping – Impact play involving strikes to the breasts. Erotic for pain, humiliation, and sensitivity.

 

Toes and Feet – A fetish focusing specifically on toes and feet. Erotic for their shape, touch, and scent, often tied to worship.

 

Toilet – A fetish involving the use of toilets in play. Often linked to water sports or extreme humiliation kinks.

 

Toilet Slave – A degradation fetish where a submissive is used as a toilet. Erotic for its extremity, humiliation, and surrender.

 

Tongue Sucking – A fetish for sucking a partner’s tongue during kissing. Erotic for its intensity, wetness, and primal intimacy.

 

Tongues – A fetish for tongues themselves, their look, movement, or texture. Erotic for their versatility and sensuality.

 

Total Power Exchange (TPE) – A BDSM dynamic where a submissive surrenders complete control. Erotic for its intensity, devotion, and ritualized ownership.

 

Touching – A fetish for simple, sensual touch. Erotic for its intimacy, teasing potential, and universal sensuality.

 

Toy Making – A fetish for crafting or customizing erotic toys. Erotic for creativity, personalization, and hands-on control of pleasure devices.

 

Toys – A fetish for sex toys in general. Erotic for variety, experimentation, and heightened arousal.

 

Trampling – A fetish where one partner walks or stands on the other’s body. Erotic for pain, domination, and

objectification.

 

Transformation – A fetish for being transformed into another identity, role, or form. Erotic for its fantasy, loss of control, and creativity.

 

Transvestism – A fetish involving wearing clothing of the opposite gender. Erotic for its taboo, expression, and transformation.

 

Triple Penetration – A fetish where a person is penetrated vaginally, anally, and orally (or with toys) simultaneously. Erotic for its intensity, fullness, and extreme surrender.

 

Trust – A fetish where arousal stems from the act of trusting a partner completely. Erotic because vulnerability becomes intoxicating.

 

Two-Girl Blowjobs – A fetish for oral sex performed by two women at once. Erotic for its indulgence, variety, and overwhelming pleasure.

 

Uncut Cock – Attraction to uncircumcised penises. Erotic for the look, texture, and extra sensitivity of foreskin.

 

Uniforms – A fetish for military, police, nurse, or other uniforms. Erotic for their authority, professionalism, and roleplay potential.

 

Urethral Fucking – Extreme urethral play involving penetration with toys. Erotic for its taboo, intensity, and unique sensations.

 

Urethral Sounds – Metal or silicone rods used for urethral play. Erotic for their medical aesthetic and precision stimulation.

 

Vacuum Bed – A bondage device where a person is encased in latex and air is vacuumed out. Erotic for immobilization, sensory deprivation, and exposure.

 

Vacuum Pumping – Using pumps to enlarge genitals or nipples temporarily. Erotic for their swelling effect and heightened sensitivity.

 

Vaginal Fisting – The insertion of a whole hand into the vagina. Erotic for its intensity, stretch, and extreme penetration.

 

Vaginal Stretching – A fetish for progressively widening the vagina with toys or penetration. Erotic for its endurance and training.

 

Vampire Gloves – Gloves fitted with small spikes or tacks used for scratching and sensation play. Erotic for their mix of pain and sensuality.

 

Vampires – A fetish for vampire roleplay, aesthetics, or blood play. Erotic for its danger, mystery, and immortal seduction.

 

Velvet – A fetish for velvet fabrics. Erotic for their soft texture and luxurious association.

 

Verbal Humiliation and Degradation – Erotic arousal from being insulted, degraded, or humiliated verbally. Erotic for its psychological edge and submission.

 

Vibrators – A fetish for vibrating toys. Erotic for their intensity, versatility, and relentless stimulation

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Victorian Lifestyles – A fetish for Victorian-era dress, manners, and restraint. Erotic for its repression, elegance, and roleplay potential.

 

Victorian Pornography – Attraction to antique erotic imagery from the Victorian era. Erotic for its historic taboo and voyeurism.

 

Vintage Lingerie – A fetish for lingerie from past eras. Erotic for its classic elegance, teasing style, and nostalgia.

 

Vintage Porn – A fetish for watching pornography from earlier decades. Erotic for its retro aesthetic, authenticity, and taboo of “old-fashioned” sex.

 

Vinyl – A fetish for vinyl clothing or sheets. Erotic for its shiny, slick aesthetic and association with fetish fashion.

 

Violence – A fetish for violent imagery, roleplay, or energy in sex. Erotic for its intensity, adrenaline, and primal rawness—always requiring negotiation and safe boundaries.

 

Violet Wand – An electrostimulation device that delivers tingling shocks across the skin. Erotic for its mix of electricity, sensory play, and edge-play thrill.

 

Voice Play – A fetish for tone, pitch, or style of voice. Erotic because whispers, growls, or commands can trigger deep psychological arousal.

 

Voyeurism – Arousal from watching others engage in sexual activity, often without being seen. Erotic for its secrecy, distance, and thrill of observing intimacy.

 

Waking Up to Oral Sex – A fetish for being woken by a partner’s mouth on the genitals. Erotic for its surprise, intimacy, and indulgent devotion.

 

Wartenberg Pinwheels – Spiked wheels rolled across the skin to stimulate nerves. Erotic for their sharp teasing and medical fetish appeal.

 

Waterboarding – An extreme edge-play fetish involving controlled water-based breath restriction. Erotic only for those who crave fear play and intensity—requiring strict safety.

 

Waterbondage – A fetish combining bondage with water immersion or wet settings. Erotic for helplessness, risk, and sensory overwhelm.

 

Watersports – A fetish for urination, whether on, by, or with a partner. Erotic for its taboo, warmth, and humiliation potential.

 

Wax – A fetish for melted candle wax, often part of sensation play. Erotic for the sting of heat and artistic layering on the body.

 

Wax Play – (see Wax) Erotic play where dripping wax teases and torments the skin, balancing pain and sensual heat.

 

Webcams – A fetish for live sex streaming or camming. Erotic for its mix of exhibitionism, voyeurism, and digital intimacy.

 

Whipping – Impact play with whips across the body. Erotic for its sharp sting, power, and the ritual of discipline.

 

Whips – A fetish for whips themselves, admired for their sound, aesthetic, and erotic intensity. Symbolic of control, punishment, and authority.

 

Wolf Play – A primal roleplay fetish where partners embody wolves. Erotic for its growling, biting, and pack dynamics of dominance and submission.

 

Wrestling – A fetish for erotic grappling, domination, and body-to-body combat. Erotic for its physicality, sweat, and power struggles.

 

Writing Erotica – A fetish for creating or sharing erotic writing. Erotic for its imagination, storytelling, and ability to arouse through words.

 

Yes, Sir. – A fetish for formal verbal submission. Erotic for its ritual simplicity, obedience, and psychological surrender contained in two words.

 

Zentai – A fetish for full-body suits that cover from head to toe. Erotic for its anonymity, sensory deprivation, and transformation into a second skin.